Hello nerds!
How do you go about accessing your self-hosted resources when you’re away from home?
I’ve used portforwarding, VPN, Tailscale and Headscale in that order but recently switched to Nebula.
Tailscale/Headscale was probably better than Nebula, but I just couldn’t stand trusting either Tailscale or the VPS used to host Headscale.
With Nebula I don’t need to trust the lighthouses, because they can’t access my network even if compromised. I also really like the built-in firewall that’s looking at node certs when filtering traffic.
- Good old WireGuard. Takes 20 seconds to add a new peer if I want to invite someone new. Don’t really get the point of using proprietary solutions like ZeroTier or Tailscale for this. 
- Wireguard to my pFsense VM. Drop the gun, walk away. 
- Choose either or with or many upto you. - Tailscale, Wireguard server, zerotier, Cloudflare Tunnels - My primary are Tailscale for LAN only applications on cloud and home. Cloudflare tunnels for access over internet for some applications. -  - Mainly i stick with Tailcsale but for few applications to share with friends and family whom i don’t want to have the access of the whole Tailscale network so CF tunnel with Zero Trust authentication on all applications with OCID hosted at home (Authentik) -  - Currently working on deploying Headscale (Self hosted Tailscale) to have complete control over my network rather than relying on Tailscale Control node. 
- I use port forwarding with Nginx and Crowdsec for the services I want widely exposed, and Wireguard for those I want accessed only by myself. 
- My router came with a wireguard gateway. As I have a dynamic IP I set wireguard up with a ddns domain pointing to my IP. 
- I have wiregard server on my unraid server and I have a backup on a raspberry pi 
- If you don’t trust Tailscale OR THE VPS YOU ARE ROOT ON YOURSELF, you should maybe not host anything. - Also: you probably haven’t understood how Tailscale works: it only mediates the connection but the provider servers are not in between two participants in your network (except relay). Those are direct connections. 
